In the ongoing Saga of myself as a Realtor buying and selling my own home, my husband and I too were presented with the classic chicken and egg debate: “Do we buy the house to move to first and then sell our home?” OR “Do we sell the house we live in not knowing where we will go after it sells?”
When I have on my professional Realtor hat, I start the dialogue with people who present the dilemma by asking: “Can you can qualify and afford to own two homes at the same time?” Because if you can’t do that financially, then the question has already been answered for you. You will have to sell and then figure out where you will go, and that may entail living in temporary housing or renting while you determine the next move.
If you can qualify and afford to own two homes at the same time, then the next question is: “Do you want to?” Many people cannot tolerate the risk associated with that scenario. So once again, the question has already been answered, put your home on the market and get it under contract, then go out and purchase a home requesting coinciding settlements in the offer.
Coinciding settlements is where the money that is coming from the sale of the current residence will be applied to the purchase of the next residence. In Virginia, where I practice real estate, it is a Wet Settlement Act state. This law requires that the deed be recorded at the court house before funds can be disbursed to pay off liens and proceeds sent to the owner (if there are any). Bottom line in Virginia, the owner does not leave after settlement of real property with the funds and thus cannot utilize them to purchase the next home until they become available, thus the necessity of the coinciding settlements clause.
The question on the other side of the coin is: “Can you tolerate not knowing where you will go if you do sell first?” This is the scenario that my husband and I found ourselves in. As many empty nesters do, my husband and I more frequently would look at each other and say, “What will we need with all this space once our youngest leaves for college?” The yard that was so much part of our family life started to feel like the weekend noose – requiring more work than anyone has time and/or desire to attend to.
Thus we had very specific requirements of where we wanted to move next and satisfying those were the priority, which included: an end unit town home, an elevator or the ability to economically retrofit one (for my elderly parents), walking distance to downtown McLean, built within the last 10 years and at a price we can afford!
When I found a property that met all of those criteria, it happened to be the Friday before Thanksgiving of last year, which whirled us unexpectedly into the entire selling and buying process. The next few contributions to my blog will follow this journey as I blend both professional and personal insights. If you find yourself in the need of some guidance from a professional Realtor, please contact Karen Briscoe with the Huckaby Briscoe Group at 703-734-0192 or at Homes@HBGroup.us as we would be delighted to be of assistance.